As well as the personal crises are a splendid opportunity to generate changes in one, the marital crises are for change from to two, to grow as a group and individually. This step permits “to separate the water”, to assume the own difficulties without charging in the accounts of the other what in reality is an unresolved personal theme.
Before a crisis is necessary to exercise new models that permit to be linked otherwise, and thus to break the vicious circle that is produced in the relation of couple.
The life in couple can be compared with a game of chess. Upon moving a piece is generated the need of a change of strategy in the other. And then responds according to the last move. That is to say, the possibility with our change exists that the other generate his and the communication flow of a different way.
The main objective is to modify that a static chessboard that impedes to grow. This is manages to producing strategic movements that generate positive answers and they conduct toward the happiness.
The experience collected in moments of crises provides resources that permit to face confident the future challenges. The crises are opportunities to grow; and to trust in God is the best way to do it.
We finalize this part citing words of the apostle Pablo, with the sincere desire that return reality in their lives. “Now I commit you to God and to the word of his grace, which can build you up and give you an inheritance among all those are sanctified.” (Acts 20:32)
(Article extracted of the brochure of CPTLN-CHILE, “Marital Crisis”. If he desires to know more he requests his free brochures)